Sosena Shiferaw

Sosena is a development professional empowering communities, particularly those facing the challenges of urban poverty.

The Leader in Me 

I was not born into easy circumstances, but I was born with a fire in my belly. Since I was a little girl, a quiet determination took root in my heart. I dreamed of being a person who would change the narrative—not just for myself, but to lift my family and my community above the situation in which we grew up. I viewed education as my bridge, working tirelessly to reach university, believing that if I could just equip myself with the right knowledge and skills, I could fix things.

For years, my vision was clear but narrow. I saw myself strictly as a developmental practitioner—a “doer.” The idea of leadership felt foreign, even repellent. I equated leadership with control and power, a desire to dominate that was completely alien to how I was wired. I wanted to serve, not rule.

But life has a way of revealing us to ourselves through the eyes of others. People observing my work saw a potential I had missed. When I was offered the position of Director for a newly registered INGO, my initial reaction was hesitation. Was I ready? Did I know enough? Despite the doubts, I accepted it, viewing it not as a promotion to power, but as a personal challenge to grow.

In less than a year, the fear subsided, replaced by a revelation: I had a dormant gift for leadership. I realized that leadership wasn’t about control; it was about influence. I began to lead my colleagues not with authority, but with humility, genuine love, and deep respect for their humanity and integrity. I loved the work, but after five years of serving, I realized I had hit a ceiling. I was too consumed by the work within my small circle. I was isolated, lacking a support network of peers and missing specific skills to maximize my efficiency.

That is when I discovered Haset. It was divine timing and a massive blessing for both me and my team.

After a year in the Haset Women Leadership Program, I have emerged as a completely different woman. Haset gave me what I didn’t know I was missing: a sisterhood. I now possess a robust network of sisters with similar passions across various sectors. The program allowed me to refine my values and deepen my self-awareness, leading to more informed, confident decision-making.

I had the privilege of learning from accomplished Ethiopian women leaders, seeing my own context reflected in their success. Haset didn’t just teach me management; it refined my entire philosophy of leadership and equipped me with the communication skills to articulate it.

I am no longer keeping this growth to myself. I have already started pouring what I’ve learned into the next generation, helping others walk this path of becoming authentic leaders. The little girl who wanted to do better is now a woman empowering others to do the same.

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