Image source: Sisterly Odyssey; hand in hand by sanjo Lawal

In the relentless cycle of being, one finds it feasible to speed to the inevitable end. It is easier to roll frantically into the abyss: The metaphorical circle we find ourselves in never stops turning. We cannot get off, and the momentum keeps us moving forward whether we have it under control or not. Losing sight of the meaning of life is an existentialist worst nightmare. Therefore, a meticulously structured society- us- has found a way to soothe the pain. we have compartmentalized our lives into various segments: mental, physical, career, romance, family, social, financial, environmental, recreational, personal growth, and contributions. While we strive for a balance among these twelve components, is it realistic to expect to achieve harmony across all these facets?

The question looms: does the perfect person exist? Is it even about perfectionism but survival? Well for me, It is not a simple topic to digest mainly because thinking about my future gives me heartburn. The good news is that putting the complexities of everyday life into sections we can comprehend is an effective method to get clarity. Clarity on what part of our lives we have to focus on more. Another good news is that these circles are interconnected. A positive result in one area influences another, creating a web of progress and the opposite can be true.

 The journey towards equipoise involves recognizing that each circle can’t always receive equal attention. Some days, our family may demand more of our focus, while other days might require us to prioritize social or personal growth. As someone who believes that we live in a simulation, being a multifaceted player or might I say, an avatar, propels us to have an elite well-rounded experience. Like my sister used to say, don’t hate the player, hate the game. I digress, love the game anyway.

 It is important to be flexible and compassionate with ourselves as we navigate this complex landscape. It can feel overwhelming and the conduit of principles could diverge our thoughts deeper than we like, opening a door to overthinking and losing sight of what matters. And what matters most is embracing the beautiful messiness of being human while maneuvering and doing what we can- and not more to be inclusive of the different areas of our lives. The intricate dance of life is not about flawless execution; it’s about genuine experiences and the relationships we build along the way.

As the circle turns, let’s remember that we are all in this together, there is never an original experience, for the most part. The carousel may never stop, but we can choose how we engage with it. By acknowledging the interconnectedness of our lives and allowing ourselves to be imperfectly perfect, we can find a deeper sense of fulfillment in the journey. After all, it’s not about getting off the merry-go-round; it’s about enjoying the ride.

Written by: Ruth Mekasha

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